Thirukkural Chapter 14 - The Possession of Decorum


Couplet 131 
'Decorum' gives especial excellence; with greater care
'Decorum' should men guard than life, which all men share
Explanation
Propriety of conduct leads to eminence, it should therefore be preserved more carefully than life

Couplet 132 
Searching, duly watching, learning, 'decorum' still we find;
Man's only aid; toiling, guard thou this with watchful mind
Explanation
Let propriety of conduct be laboriously preserved and guarded; though one know and practise and excel in many virtues, that will be an eminent aid

Couplet 133 
'Decorum's' true nobility on earth;
'Indecorum's' issue is ignoble birth
Explanation
Propriety of conduct is true greatness of birth, and impropriety will sink into a mean birth

Couplet 134 
Though he forget, the Brahman may regain his Vedic lore;
Failing in 'decorum due,' birthright's gone for evermore
Explanation
A Brahman though he should forget the Vedas may recover it by reading; but, if he fail in propriety of conduct even his high birth will be destroyed

Couplet 135 
The envious soul in life no rich increase of blessing gains,
So man of 'due decorum' void no dignity obtains
Explanation
Just as the envious man will be without wealth, so will the man of destitute of propriety of conduct be without greatness

Couplet 136 
The strong of soul no jot abate of 'strict decorum's' laws,
Knowing that 'due decorum's' breach foulest disgrace will cause
Explanation
Those firm in mind will not slacken in their observance of the proprieties of life, knowing, as they do, the misery that flows from the transgression from them

Couplet 137 
'Tis source of dignity when 'true decorum' is preserved;
Who break 'decorum's' rules endure e'en censures undeserved
Explanation
From propriety of conduct men obtain greatness; from impropriety comes insufferable disgrace

Couplet 138 
'Decorum true' observed a seed of good will be;
'Decorum's breach' will sorrow yield eternally
Explanation
Propriety of conduct is the seed of virtue; impropriety will ever cause sorrow

Couplet 139 
It cannot be that they who 'strict decorum's' law fulfill,
E'en in forgetful mood, should utter words of ill
Explanation
Those who study propriety of conduct will not speak evil, even forgetfully

Couplet 140 
Who know not with the world in harmony to dwell,
May many things have learned, but nothing well
Explanation
Those who know not how to act agreeably to the world, though they have learnt many things, are still ignorant